Kent and Medway
Swingers in Kent: Meet Couples From Medway to Canterbury
Meet Kent couples and singles online, then try the weekend club near Maidstone or a bar in Tunbridge Wells.
Couples are a big part of Kent
More than 60 of our members in Kent are couples, out of more than 125 in all. If you are a couple hoping to meet other couples, that is worth knowing before you write your first message.
Canterbury, Dartford and Rochester each have more than 10 members, and Maidstone has members too. The county is known as the Garden of England, and Maidstone, the Medway Towns and Tunbridge Wells all sit in the London commuter belt.
Already a pair and thinking about adding a third? How to find a third sets out how to ask well and what to agree first.
Where in Kent to meet, and how far London is
| Town | From London | Good to know |
|---|---|---|
| Royal Tunbridge Wells | 30 miles | Known for the Pantiles. The Hotel du Vin bar is on Crescent Road. |
| Maidstone | 32 miles | The county town. Pleasures in Kent is at Wateringbury, near it. |
| Canterbury | About 55 miles | The Loft Bar on St Margaret's Street, closed Tuesdays. |
| Ashford | About 61 miles by road | High-speed trains cut the trip to about 38 minutes. |
The Medway Towns are Chatham, Gillingham, Rainham, Rochester and Strood. St Pancras to Ebbsfleet takes 15 to 17 minutes, and the main roads are the M2/A2, the M20/A20 and the M25. London has its own scene on swingers in London. Comparing counties? Swingers in the UK and the places hub put Kent beside the others.
A weekend club near Maidstone
Pleasures in Kent is an adult-only private club at 326 Red Hill, Wateringbury (ME18 5LD). Its website says it is open every Friday and Saturday night. When we checked on 14 October 2026 the site carried a 2026 date and showed its Halloween party as sold out.
It is a private club, so ask about joining and the door policy before you go. For what every club expects of you, see swingers clubs.
Three ways couples meet couples here
Start with a chat
Build a profile as a couple, say whether you lean towards soft swap, full swap or just a night out, and talk in private first. Free ID verification puts a badge on your profile.
Meet on neutral ground
A hotel bar in Tunbridge Wells or a cocktail bar in Canterbury keeps the first hour public. Say your limits out loud before you order.
Plan the night together
A VIP member can start a private chat with up to 50 people: enough to settle the club, the night and who is driving.
The Kent crowd, by age
These bars show how our Kent members divide by age.
Shares of our members in Kent, singles and couples together, from our member records.
The over-55s lead by a distance, and the under-35s are the shortest bar.
Put a health check in the plan
The NHS suggests a visit to a sexual health clinic when you are having sex with new partners, and what you tell the staff stays confidential. The NHS website finds the nearest clinic from a postcode, so Kent couples can fit a check around the trains. Our safety page covers what we do on the lounge itself.
Kent, answered before the train
Is there a swingers club in Kent?
Pleasures in Kent, at Wateringbury near Maidstone, is an adult-only private club that says it opens every Friday and Saturday night. Its site carried a 2026 date when we checked on 14 October 2026. Ask about joining and the door policy before you book.
Can I reach London swingers nights by train from Kent?
High-speed trains take about 38 minutes from Ashford to London, and St Pancras to Ebbsfleet takes 15 to 17 minutes. London has its own page, with the clubs and their nights. Check the last train home before you commit to a late night.
Will other members see my address in Kent?
No. Members see a username and the nearest town or city to you, never your real name, email or exact location. You can block anyone instantly, and sensitive photos stay blurred until the viewer chooses to look. Report anything that feels wrong from inside the platform, where human support is on hand around the clock.
Are there swingers in Canterbury and Maidstone?
Members name both towns, along with Dartford and Rochester. Maidstone is the county town, 32 miles from London, and Canterbury is about 55 miles out and has some 31,000 students. Find couples near you on the lounge, then meet in a public bar before anything else.
Put your names on the list
Say hello online, and the weekend club or the hotel bar becomes the second meeting.
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