Take a seat in the lounge
Swingers Lounge is where local swingers and couples meet people who want the same kind of night. It's home to more than 7,500 members, and more than 2,100 of them are couples.
Seven in ten members are aged between 35 and 64: grown-ups who know their own minds and say exactly what they're after on their profile. Curious, and happy to start with a drink and a conversation? You'll fit right in. Years in the lifestyle, with a favourite club, a regular party and a little black book of couples you trust? So will you.
Singles are as welcome as couples, and your profile shows what you're open to and nothing more. Want to see who's close? Try swingers near me. Couples hoping to meet another couple should start with swinging couples.
Get your name on the guest list
Three moves and you're inside, and nobody sees a photo you haven't chosen to show.
Make your profile
Add a few photos, say if you are a couple or a single and list what you are into, from soft swap to full swap and party nights.
Look for swingers nearby
Browse your daily matches, which lean towards people close to you, and read their profiles before you say a word.
Say hello at your pace
Chat in private, take your time and meet when everyone's keen. Planning a group night? A private group chat holds up to 50 people.
Tools that do the introductions
- Daily matches picked for you by age range, how close people live and the kind of night you want.
- Profiles that say what people are open to, from a quiet drink to a full evening with another couple.
- Private messages that keep a first hello between the two of you, and chat rooms for a livelier crowd.
- Group chats that hold up to 50 people, handy for planning a party or a night out with friends.
- Free ID verification that puts a badge on your profile, and a behaviour rating on every member.
- Blurred pictures: anything that might be explicit stays hidden until you choose to look.
Every tool is listed on the features page. Want the lounge on your phone? The swinger app page shows how to put it on your home screen.
Discretion is the house rule
Nobody sees your real name or your address. Members get your username and your nearest town, and that's all. Block anyone and they can neither see you nor contact you. If something feels wrong, report it: the support team is real people, on call round the clock.
Every profile carries a rating based on how that member behaves, so you can judge who is easy company before you reply. Our safety page explains every check, and about us sets out the house rules every member signs up to.
Know the scene before you walk in
Never been to a club? Start with swingers clubs and swingers parties, then read swinger etiquette so the first night goes smoothly. New to all of this? The guide to what swinging is answers the basics in plain words.
Weighing us up against the other names? Our side-by-side comparisons put the lounge next to each one, fact by fact, and our guide to good swinger sites sums up the lot in one table. All our swinging guides sit in one place.
Swingers in their fifties, sixties and seventies have a section of their own: Senior Swingers Lounge.
Straight answers before you say hello
What is Swingers Lounge?
A swingers dating community for couples and singles who want to meet locally. It has been online since 2016 and you must be 18 or over to join. Members build a profile, browse, chat and arrange meets at their own pace.
Can singles join as well as couples?
Yes. Singles and couples are both welcome, and your profile is where you say who you would like to meet and what you are open to. A polite, clear profile gets noticed.
How do I find swingers near me?
Join, tell the lounge where you are and check your daily matches, which lean towards people nearby. Every profile names the member's closest town, so you can tell at once who is within reach.
Is Swingers Lounge discreet?
It is built that way. You pick a username, your real name and email stay hidden, and members see only your nearest town. Blocking takes one tap, and sensitive photos stay blurred until someone chooses to look.
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