Features
Swingers Lounge Features: Meet, Chat and Plan Your Night
Find swingers who want the same night as you, talk in private and plan it together.
Four ways through the door
Swingers Lounge runs in any browser, on a laptop, a tablet or a phone, and on a phone it saves to the home screen so it opens like an app. Nothing to download first.
Desktop browser
The full lounge on any laptop or desktop computer.
Phone browser
Save it to your home screen and it opens full screen. The swinger app page shows the steps for iPhone and Android.
iPhone and iPad app
A native app from the App Store, in some countries.
Android app
A native app from Google Play, in some countries.
Three levels of membership, one lounge
Everyone starts on Classic. VIP and VIP Plus open up more ways to talk and to be found, and the pricing page has every plan and price.
Classic
A full profile, browsing, daily matches, status updates and photos, polls and quizzes, a limited number of messages a day, and replies to anyone who writes to you. Free ID verification is included.
VIP
Everything in Classic, plus unlimited messaging, advanced search filters, chat rooms, private group chats for up to 50 people, a list of who likes you, rewind and priority comments.
VIP Plus
Everything in VIP, plus exclusive matches, priority placement for your messages and likes, a spot at the top of the match stack, and Boosts and Super Match as add-ons.
Every tool, tier by tier
| Tool | Classic | VIP | VIP Plus |
|---|---|---|---|
| Full profile, browsing, daily matches | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Updates, photos, polls and quizzes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Messages | A limited number a day | Unlimited | Unlimited |
| Reply to VIP and VIP Plus messages | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| ID and video verification, badges | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Chat rooms | No | Yes | Yes |
| Private group chats, up to 50 | No | Yes | Yes |
| Filters by city, distance, experience | No | Yes | Yes |
| Rewind, and see who likes you | No | Yes | Yes |
| Priority comments | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive matches | No | No | Yes |
| Priority messages and likes, top of the match stack | No | No | Yes |
| Boosts and Super Match (add-ons) | No | No | Yes |
How your daily matches get picked
Each day the lounge puts a handful of people in front of you. It weighs your age range, who you want to meet, how close they live, how recently they were active, lifestyle habits such as drinking and smoking, and the interests on both profiles.
That gets you the introduction. What happens next is down to your profile, which is why our profile tips are worth ten minutes before you start. Looking for people near a particular town? Swingers near me explains what each tier can search on.
Get seen first when it counts
Three VIP Plus extras for the nights you'd rather not leave to chance.
- Boosts put your profile in front of members near you for a limited time.
- Super Match sends a highlighted message that the person you picked always sees first, and they can reply straight to it.
- Top of the match stack means you lead other members' daily suggestions.
Boosts and Super Match are bought as add-ons, on top of the VIP Plus membership.
Checks that keep the room real
- Free ID verification is open to every member, and a badge on your profile shows it was done.
- Video verification is a live check with a moderator that confirms who you are without asking for documents.
- Age assurance estimates age automatically, with further checks where the law requires them.
- Admin validation lets our team approve your profile without you sending sensitive paperwork.
- Badges are earned through activity, so you can see who is real and who answers messages.
The full list of protections, from blurred photos to 24-hour human support, is on the safety page. Planning a party or a night out with a group? A private group chat holds up to 50 people, and swingers parties shows how organisers use them.
Feature questions, answered straight
Do I need VIP to send messages?
No. Classic members can send a limited number of messages every day and can answer anyone who writes to them, VIP members included. VIP removes the daily limit and adds chat rooms and group chats.
What is the difference between VIP and VIP Plus?
VIP is about talking: unlimited messages, advanced filters, chat rooms and group chats. VIP Plus is about being seen: exclusive matches, priority placement and the top of the match stack, with Boosts and Super Match available as add-ons.
Is there a Swingers Lounge app?
It works in any phone browser and saves to your home screen as a web app, so it opens with a single tap. Native iPhone and Android apps are available in some countries, but the home screen route works for everyone.
Who can see my photos?
Photos you add to your profile are seen by other members. Anything that looks sensitive is blurred with a warning until the viewer chooses to look, and you can block anyone so they can no longer see you.
Pick your seat, then pick your people
Start on Classic tonight and see who the lounge puts in front of you.
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